counterbalancing the forces of evil with inconsequential acts of kindness is IN!
I am rarely disappointed. Here's one randomly-selected post and quote from it: "I believe we are meaning-seeking creatures, and these feelings of meaning, relational and connective, are almost always located within kindness. Kindness is the force that draws us together, and this, Beau, is what I think I am trying to say – that despite our collective state of loss, and our potential for evil, there exists a great network of goodness, knitted together by countless everyday human kindnesses. TheseĀ often small, seemingly inconsequential acts of kindness, that Soviet writer Vasily Grossman callsĀ ā€˜petty, thoughtless kindness’, orĀ ā€˜unwitnessed kindness’ bind together to create a subterranean and vanquishing Good that counterbalances the forces of evil and prevents suffering from overwhelming the world. We reach out and find each other in the common darkness. ByĀ doing so we triumph over our collective and personal loss. Through kindness we slant, shockingly and miraculously, toward meaning. We discover, in that smallest gesture of goodwill laid at the feet of our mutual and monumental loss,Ā ā€˜the pointā€˜. Love, Nick" Please never give up hope in humanity! The "unwitnessed kindnesses" that Nick refers to not only demonstrate care, but also manifest a kind of love within us that is bigger than religion. When I think about "God," I think about our capacity for that love. That to me IS God. ā¤ļø
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alright, this is not like anything i’ve posted before, but with it being Easter and all, it’s on my mind!Ā  i’ve had a complicated relationship with religion for the majority of my life. i was raised in the bible belt, so i found myself in a church pew, singing hymns and listening to a southern old man preach for an hour almost every sunday morning from the time i was a toddler.Ā  that being said, i wrestled with the idea of God quite a bit - i saw and experienced the hypocrisy and hurt within the church - i think i almost tried to get rid of Him; if being with Him meant i was grouped in with these people, i needed to get away. however, i then realized he would not leave me. he was knocking at my door; he’d always been there, and he always would be. he didn’t shame, scold, or abandon me like i expected because of the people that surrounded me. in my most painful moments, i found myself crying out to him - i decided to finally go, ā€œsure, let’s see what you’ve gotā€. i believe that to be one of the best things i’ve ever done for myself. time and time again, i’ve started to worry about how a certain situation might go, gone ā€œok, you take this oneā€, and it has worked out more beautifully than it ever would’ve had i tried to handle it on my own. even better are the times that something has landed in my lap that i could’ve never imagined would. sometimes, i go back and look at the little moments in my life that have gotten me to where i am now, and i think, ā€œwow, God was there.ā€Ā  and you know, maybe it is all coincidence and all of these are just the little wonders of life, but i find it quite amazing and comforting to believe that there is a being of the highest power (whatever or whoever that may be for you) that loves you and genuinely wants the best for you. i think believing in something is simply a human trait; it’s a healthy thing for us to do. sometimes you need to hand your anxieties over to the universe. sometimes you see the sun hit something in just the right way, hear a certain song, or notice how perfectly the human body is built to hug or hold hands, and you’re smacked in the face with the thought that there must be a creator. our souls should not have to feel that they are alone and bound to this earth and that’s it. it gives us something to strive to be like and live for. having the freedom to believe in what we want to is such a beautiful thing, whether you choose to have faith in something or not. i think this is something i could go on about for much longer, so i’m going to try and stop it here. there is so much wonder and whimsy in believing in something, and i think it’s worth exploring. i’m not even sure if there’s an actual point to all of this, but that’s it. that’s the rec!
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