Like giving up trying to do something that ur working too hard for, hard enough that its actually making u take steps backwards? That still sounds depressing but I swear its not. Its like realizing you dont need to achieve that thing , you can just do ur best and eventually you'll probably get to where u want to be, it's just a little less direct (maybe I've stopped to smell the roses, or more like I plucked a rose while walking by).
