Rec | ALLOWING CONFLICT OF IDENTITY TO FESTER UNCOMFORTABLY

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allowing conflict of identity to fester uncomfortably

inside me there is a battle between the intrinsic desire to become everyone’s worst demonic nightmare, in a “cannabalism as an act of love” kind of way, against the angelic lens i see life through, that lends my heart to be infinitely softer than any crushed velvet money can buy, and no one wins

@lunarpillow

Feb 7, 2024

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this line from the marriage of heaven and hell by william blake

ok there’s this one line i think about all the time, i’m gonna paraphrase because i left my copy of the book at the studio, but it’s like “Sooner kill a child in its cradle than nurse un-acted upon desires” this sentence is constructed clumsily and it’s soooo dramatic but i adore the sentiment. i don’t want to see any of you little bitches nursing desires without attempting to realize them. boring!!!!! follow your desire to the best of your ability even if you lack talent or time or tools or whatever. constant birthing girlies!!! no calcification!!!