(I know thatโs not really a word, but it is a philosophy)
Itโs OK if youโre single, do things that inspire yourself and be creative and make grand gestures and epic pronouncements.
If youโre in a committed partnership, keep the spark alive by doing unexpected and spontaneous things.
And if you have multiple partners, the serotonin and dopamine from being with one can spread to your relationships with the others. As Spider Robinson said, shared joy is increased.