Not necessarily a compliment, more of a reassurance, but I recently mentioned to my boss how stoic and unflinching one of our coworkers was in meetings. Confused, she told me that I was one of the most composed, calm people she had worked with. This was astonishing to me because, especially in meetings with our big boss, it's all screams inside my brain.
Jul 15, 2024
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once said i have a calming presence. Happened maybe 7 years ago and i still carry it with me
Jul 15, 2024
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coworker who followed me on letterboxd on my second day working there, who i rarely see, complimented my reviews this week and i got giddy as hell. She had me stuttering and i havent come down from that high, she’s so cool too
2d ago
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they're often delighted by my casual jokes and deadpan delivery. i feel like aubrey plaza up in this bitch
Mar 2, 2024
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i want to know where you came from! how you've changed! how you're doing now! is that really such a crime? is this not why social media exists?
Jul 10, 2024
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I know I know, share the love and all
But you all already know too much ab me. Can’t let the outside circle know who I actually am, gotta keep the mysterious act up somehow
Jul 24, 2024
being an adult can get real busy, and I don’t have as much time to see my friends anymore. our solution for this has become a regular debrief night every 1-2 months. here’s the structure:
- cook or order a meal together
- come in the comfiest clothes
- late at night is ideal
- prepare throughout the week by building a PowerPoint with sections for each friend detailing important updates/occurrences in their lives (I like to present mine as little stories with pics for reference)
- appendix at the end of the ppt of new friends, enemies, and everyone’s “OOO” dates so we can make plans accordingly
these nights have come to be some of the best memories for us, and is now something everyone in our circles knows about - anytime something happens, someone asks us “will this/I be in the debrief now?” it’s structured fun and a great way to stay connected with my people. highly recommend if you have the time!
(Pic for reference with faces cropped out)
Jul 10, 2024