A cool thing as an adult is that I get to make holidays how I want them, creating new rituals, and deciding which ones from my childhood to keep. Really healing when certain holidays have had harmful memories.
A cool thing as a parent is I get to experience the magic of holidays through my kids. Iβm going trick or treating this year for the first time in 20 years!
Oct 27, 2024
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Itβs sooo cute and fun and feels just like when you were a kid but better because you are old enough to drive your own jet ski π₯Ή also makes your parents happy π
Aug 28, 2024
Iβm fortunate enough to still have both my parents and am always grateful to have a place to stay when Iβm in town. Their backyard is one of my favorite places in the world.
It may not be my childhood home but it still feels like home nonetheless.
Apr 11, 2025
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It was as if all the yearning I had cultivated over the years, spending it hundred, and eventually thousands, of miles away from my family had finally subsided. I was sad that Christmas was spent away. I am looking forward to spending it in a new way I do feel a pang of guilt for this feeling tho. As if my body knows what is expected and feels shame for not feeling what one should feel. I miss them of course I do but I also feel happy with the distance. Are those things mutually exclusive?
Dec 23, 2024
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For some reason this brings me into my parasympathetic nervous system
Mar 28, 2025
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Humans have always danced. It is part of who we are, yet we have been conditioned to be self conscious, to think that we do not move our bodies good enough. Dancing is beyond judgement. Dancing is not a skill, it is our soul moving through our bodies, expressed in movement. Dancing is healing. Dancing is bodily autonomy. Dancing is FUN! Any feeling you are feeling can be moved through with dance yet even alone, you fear looking foolish. Kill the judge in your mind, shut the fuck up, and MOVE π
Apr 24, 2025
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OH BROTHER THIS GUY actually needs a lot of empathy and understanding
Apr 2, 2025