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love isnt something weak people do

i remind myself as i try again and again

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LOVE.

why is it so easy yet impossibly hard, all at the same time?

@obeewankenobi

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LOve should be soft

If you are constantly fighting for your relationship, maybe it's time to let that relationship go. Of course, there are going to be growing pains when you are learning how to grow and live with someone, but at the same time, if they refuse to do that softly or gain the tools to disagree with you respectfully, they will never learn.

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MY THOUGHTS ON LOVE

people stay together because of one reason or the next, but how stupid could you be to then not be in love? but then again, there’s some sort of weird, twisted, sick romance in staying with someone even through the thin. even through the sickness, and the bad and the ugly. maybe they are waiting to get their spark back, maybe the world is against them, or maybe, just maybe, they stick together because they found their person—they’ve built a life together, and neither one knows how to let go.

@sunflowerlady

Jun 6, 2025

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a poem i wrote

there are things i think are weird  but it’s not that they are actually  weird  it’s that they are unusual  or they bring me a new perspective — one that i’m not so used to — like seeing an orange tractor on the side of the road  surrounded by three men in orange  construction suits  in the middle of the french countryside  or the fact that  at the beach yesterday, the foggy glimpse of land, the island we could see in the distance was the british island of jersey. it made me think about how the world is really so small  and that we, humans, are the ones  that make it seem so big and  vast.  we are the ones that over complicate over think over populate  over build over use  over dignify ourselves  when we are just merely visitors in this never ending universe. and somehow, in some  situations that idea is  safety and  comfort. it’s refreshing  to know that as messy and as complicated  our lives are, none of it  actually matters. because if nothing matters, we can get away with a lot. we can be mean and  crazy and stupid  and in love  and happy and hungry for more and sad  and lively and alone.  but then i remember that “we are not a drop in the ocean we are the ocean in a drop” and we don’t have to pretend that our  emotions are meaningless  and that our lives aren’t meant to be lived  and we aren’t meant to be thought about and  cared for and loved.  the things we feel are real and they hurt. they are painful.  they are beautiful.  they stay and they pass.  just like the fog that covers up jersey — just like the tractor on the side of the road — just like us.

@sunflowerlady

Jan 4, 2025

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daisies 1966

a movie about two girls who just wanna have some fun and eat good food

@sunflowerlady

Jan 4, 2025