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have to remember to pay it forward for my roommates' friends helping us feed the cats thru this freeze. i shall do this by getting into the community garden and growin em some sweet veg when it warms up.
Feb 20, 2025
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I have been calling in a lot of favors recently (mostly cat sitting as i’ve had a lot of travel necessities accumulate this month for some reason) and thankfully I have friends who are happy to do it for free, so I have been compensating them with tokens of gratitude. I got one friend who’s into sake a nice bottle from a place in town he hasn’t been to. for another friend I got them a big ol bag of their favorite sweet treats. Another friend of mine works on an IOU system so we have been exchanging favors (not in a quid pro quo way more of a serviceberry economy type beat).
in these trying times we’re all feeling a little pinched, but a favor goes a long way in helping folks take care of what they have to do without putting them in more of a squeeze. Pay it forward and show a little personalized love and keep that IOU tally in your back pocket and build your own little economy of reciprocity
May 19, 2025
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aggressive self care and self improvement (for your own benefit not theirs) on the good days, kindness and a delicious meal on the bad ones x🍝
Apr 21, 2024
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Borrow a cup of sugar or ask to use their spare wrench. Offer an egg or two or feed their cat.
Bring back community life!
Apr 28, 2024
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stranger in the library asking for a hug? pretend you're listening to music and walk away!
not enjoying that dicey movie rec your friend sent you, cuz its a little too edgy? turn it off!
ur dating app match got too obsessed way too quickly, wont stop saying the l word? ghost em!
well- maybe the ghosting thing is controversial. but man i dont think we owe these fellas our time, keep your safe space safe even if that means walking away without telling them. maybe that's safer sometimes, too. i dunno. i also just dont like confrontation. oops.
Feb 17, 2025