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I've met a couple of people in my life for whom the phrase 'I hate all men' has become their entire personality, and it honestly irks me. Now, I don't want any of this to be misinterpreted as me excusing the harmful actions and systems that men have created and perpetuated, but as someone who tries to invest time in understanding and finding actions that encourage community—especially in the times we're in—having a genuine hatred toward all men is a bored, tired, and honestly an unproductive mentality when focusing on community building. That said, seeing as this way of thinking is becoming more popular (from what I've seen on other platforms), I am simply suggesting that you approach the 'us vs. them' message that comes with 'I hate all men' with a little criticism. (Would also love some critiques on my thoughts ! Please, any feedback is welcome and encouraged.)
Mar 2, 2025

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I kind of think of it like this, any mass generalization about a group of people thats rooted in hate is a part of the problem, even if it is a deserving group of people (ie cis men)
Jun 4, 2025

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