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asking dad about the friends he had growing up

the lore is so cute

@susanna

Oct 14, 2024

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any text from my dad

he doesn’t text often, but when he does i’m giddy. he pays attention to the little things, sends me texts related to things i'm passionate about, and loves a good outdated meme.

@weird

May 10, 2024

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MY DAD

This might be the second time mentioning my dad in a rec which feels excessive but literally every single time I speak to him I have this groundbreaking revelation about whatever I’m going through and suddenly the keys to all of my problems are in my hands. Genuinely don’t think he has any idea how profound he is. I think that what he says and what I receive are actually two disjoint sets. I think I have a new trust him since I don’t live with him he’s just like a wise old wizard who lives in his little cabin in a meadow with his goats and I visit him sometimes to seek his insights and to pet his goats. He is never worried about anything, completely out of the matrix.

@soft

3h ago

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NOT MASKING YOUR BAD BEHAVIOR WITH THERAPY TERMINOLOGY

My friend today asked me an amazing question. He said, “Do you think the avoidance thing is specific to our generation or LA specific? Like is someone in Arkansas thinking about anxiety?” Obviously yes someone in Arkansas is thinking of anxiety haha but it made me really think. Our generation is HORRIBLE (me included) at facing shit and taking accountability. It’s all masked underneath this ”therapy talk” shit. Hear me out. Let’s say you have a friend and you’re feeling conflict/tension with them. After a few weeks of them being mean, you confront them about it. They’re passive and not addressing their actions. We would INSTANTLY write them off as “AVOIDANT” versus “A friend who’s hurting me by being shitty even if they don’t intend to.” And yes, that friend is being “avoidant”. But, that’s a simple write off for behavior. Behavior has been so quickly written off to fit into this Therapy Talk. Here’s another example: A girl who really likes someone is attaching to them quickly because she’s excited to get to know them and is having so much fun, she’s moving faster than usually and trying to rush commitment. Society would consider her “Anxiously attached” versus “This girl is really into this person and it’s shifting her choices and actions.“ I think what i’m getting at is, it seems dismissive and avoidant to just simplify these big feelings and actions into these terms when in reality, yes the terms are true. But, we should probably be making space to really talk and express in full detail a persons actions including our own, and get to the bottom of it. The categories can be apart of the larger narrative, but they arent the full reasoning. I hope this made sense lol

@courtnipoe

Nov 27, 2024

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SELF CONTROL WHEN TIPSY

I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all. I won't text my crush a voice note risking it all.

@courtnipoe

Apr 26, 2025

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leaving

anything and everything anytime whenever planned or not

@courtnipoe

Mar 9, 2025