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Stating that a date is a date
I’ve accidentally gone on two dates in the past few months lol I struggle to read the room so I need ”lets hang out” to become “I’d like to go on a date with you” if it is, in fact, a date.
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@antiqueroadhead
Mar 18, 2025
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@salad_valet
This was a repeated motif in my 20s. and always without fail, i figured it out halfway through the date. and i’d ask… “wait, is this a flirty thing? Are we on a date??” So awkward and NOT transparent. let’s be real and clear y’all
Mar 18, 2025
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@antiqueroadhead
@SALAD_VALET good on you for asking, I just stared plotting escape. yes to clarity!!
Mar 18, 2025

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making precise plans from the start
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