not counting college because you every either move into a dorm or commute. but after being at my first job for about a year, i finally moved into an apartment. this also happened in autumn 2020. i have been in my own living quarters since. if you feel the need to leave and spread your wings, do it. but make sure you are financially sound to do it. have your savings, don’t splurge on a living arrangement you can’t afford, buy secondhand instead of new furniture, etc.
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Thank you 🙏 this is both reassuring and very useful advice. Crazy how things like crockery and cutlery are 70+% cheaper secondhand.
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@ZARA honestly i would suggest almost everything secondhand, especially a sofa. they can be so expensive new, i just got mine for $400 on FB Marketplace 😂
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