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yes, that’s my recommendation, no more compassion, no more second chances.
We are all adults, and everyone is AWARE of what they are doing.
First mistake will be the last one, cut them ties off, set boundaries, be assertive, show them that their actions have consequences.
Apr 19, 2025
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Depends on the intensity of the situation, of course. But protect your peace at all costs. People are intelligent and know when they hurt people, even if it’s just a residual guilt. If they “need to explain their side,“ nine times out of ten they will gaslight you. Trust your gut and don’t fall for mediocrity.
Jan 18, 2024
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yes these people are hurting and don’t currently have the tools to cope with their trauma, which is sad and worthy of compassion
but also
you didn’t deserve to be constantly subject to their toxic behaviors, and you cannot keep minimizing your own pain for the sake of the “relationship” or “hoping for the best” as you white-knuckle through the trauma they caused
Oct 11, 2024
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I can no longer be guilted into keeping someone in my life that makes me feel awful and makes other peoples life harder, I reccomend you give it a try, sometimes water is thicker than blood
Apr 16, 2025
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I can’t find the Creator and i am mad about it because i wanna credit the one who made sure to put this for free.
I’ve found this website RetroPrint where they show the details of how you can make a Windows 95 customised theme on your phone (with over 800 icons app to choose from 27 of them are already made for the modern apps like netflix twitter etc - some graphics for the widgets too And 3 sounds.)
Jan 30, 2025
If there is one style that literally calms me is stippling.
The endless dots, the slow process, the nuance effect, the final results.
I just love it and appreciate it even more when i spend hours/days to finish one.
Jan 13, 2025
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The fact that i can stay in bed warm with my phone or laptop and music in the background as i watch my favourite movies/series/youtube vids with a warm tea is simple enough to make me grateful for wherever i am today.
Worrying about what I should wear to work is a beautiful thing because it’s a privilege that sadly some people can’t afford :(
Complaining about to cook is a beautiful thing because someone somewhere sadly can’t even afford/have access to a simple bread piece.
Literally feeling the warmth of the sun while standing waiting for the bus is a beautiful thing to cherish and be grateful for.
Jan 11, 2025