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Just Ask.
Instead of spiraling and overthinking every little thing, just ask. Ask your partner / your friend / whoever’s got you confused.
You’re not annoying. You’re not crazy. You’re just trying to understand. And honestly? Most people are chill and actually willing to explain if you just give them the chance.
So skip the mind drama. Ask the damn question. Peace unlocked.
Apr 21, 2025
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asking more than one person, having an open mind, carefully considering radically different perspectives from your own, giving other viewpoints a fair chance. this includes emotional matters & practical affairs as well
most people like giving advice, but few people feel enough trust and willingness to be vulnerable they'll ask for it. being unsure is value neutral, it's perfectly alright not to be sure what to do next.
Aug 25, 2024
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anybody else tired of spelling every little thing out? we are spelling way too much out these days and it's a lot. we need a bit more opacity over transparency! not every situation calls on us to explain ourselves. most of the time we can just shrug and keep it moving. as a society it'd be amazing if we can learn to make space for unencumbered silence and repose in a gentle and tender way. let go and let live
Jan 30, 2024
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understand that each person has their own boundaries. no asking why, no asking how come. no questions are needed.
just understand and respect that.
Jan 4, 2025
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