it was somewhere on a blog years ago, where someone broke that down in depth - basically if you're getting shit pay, whatever fun thing you bought with that money is shit. I used to impulse shop quite a bit before I read that adage, and now really think through my circumstances when I'm impulse shopping, like wtf am I doing? Why am I throwing so much money on this when I could just... chill?
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that is a great perspective. when i was really struggling with impulse shopping i started learning more about early 20th century advertisement practices and the rise of department stores and consumer psychology blah blah blah. basically brands and sellers want us to feel like that purchase will fill your cup and change your life. when i was unemployed for awhile it was really put into perspective to me how all the purchases i had impulsively made was real money i wasted and couldve had when i actually needed it, not the holy grail 🤷‍♀️ thanks for the advice! :)
Apr 27, 2025
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@ROOGBY 100% agree! It is an incredibly seductive experience, but I forgot to add the advice also applies if you have a high-paying job... because if the job feels like shit, then whatever you buy to alleviate that, is still shit, essentially. Like you will never value that. But yeahh I still love my trinkets hahaha so I'm figuring it out everyday!
Apr 27, 2025
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@ROOGBY so fr 😭 maximalism is the devil on my shoulder but i love her
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