Whenever i don’t feel like doing something i always romanticize the experience. Riding a bike? i feel like audrey hepburn right now man. doing my homework? I’m going to become super smart and be very educated. Going through a hard time? It‘s just character development (lol). i also tend to think about the person i wanna be and what she’s like (she’s super cool) and what she would do. And that gets me motivated to actually do the things she does and become her.
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I’m trying to romanticize things more. Like the mundane shit too. It’s kinda working. I saw something on here that it’s called nudging? I’ll have to look into that. How do we keep going when things arent working? Romanticize the grind? I actually despise it. So how do I make the challenges feel bigger? Otherworldly?
Jan 30, 2025
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Whenever I have a particularly bad day I make myself feel better by imagining it as a crucial scene in the movie about my life that will be made after I die. like she had to go through some serious turmoil to become so talented and world-changing. then I feel better about my day and I look forward to creating more scenes in my life movie!
Everyone has their things and I suppose that’s mine….but also what are urs I wanna hear how u all do it !!
Mar 26, 2024
i forgot my headphones at home. i was about to either
1) pump black country new road
2) watch brooklyn 99.
i miss being passionate about things, not being able to sleep, eat, speak,
or fathom anything beyond the apple
of my eye and the fruit of my thoughts.
i miss waking up with one thing in mind, how i would explore it that day, and how i would explore it the next
it’s been people
it’s been sewing
guitar
driving
religion
philosophy
photography
writing
filming
blogging
i think, regardless of any tik tok data explosion with the intention of ripping out each of my brain cells to keep me submissive and docile because of a wrecked attention span, i’m not a girl of her commitments- i get bored.
and i am bored. i feel this lack of passion so deeply in my body, its been a catalyst for the recent crashouts ive had ( and there’s been plenty) i don’t know how to stay, and work hard, and allow myself to grow to what i want to be right in this instance. not to shine my own shoes, but i’m not super used to being bad at things. i’ve always always always coasted, and now that im trying to be a gaf (give a fuck) filled girl, ive realized, sucking at something hurts a lot more when you’ve put in the work to be good at it.
if it wasn’t me writing this, and my best friend called me and told me this word for word, i would tell her how normal that feeling was, and that she herself knew what to do; commit. and that is my advice, dear sweet amalia, commit, commit, commit.
Feb 18, 2025
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taking a nap under the sun is so peaceful and relaxing. it feels like a little hug. a warm kiss. you’ll get your vitamin d in at the same time too. take a sunkissed nap y'all, you WON’T regret it. I haven’t felt this at peace in a while.
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