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I don’t know, I can’t stop myself from being a hater sometimes but I can end my rant with a bunch of gratitude and accountability… it looks kinda like this
*rants about someone’s awful style*
“But honestly I literally dress like that on my days off so let me shut up maybe it’s her day off”
It’s called balance.
5d ago
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The hater mentality and cynicism you project outward is also how you think about yourself and you’re bumming everybody out
Apr 7, 2024
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i used to be such a hater, and of course there are ways it still shines through, but it’s exhausting to think everything everyone else does is embarrassing all the time. like yeah crocs are cringe, but that’s kind of the point? if it’s not hurting anyone, if it’s just someone being happy and enjoying something, why be a hater??
Feb 17, 2025
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It’s easy to just hate and equally easy to bail but if you force yourself to exert your haterism as momentum to hold yourself to a higher standard. why not challenge yourself to do it a little better every time you pick it up. even if you’re being a little spiteful or catty.
Apr 2, 2024
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Let it out , legend.
On friendship: have a fart contest!
On relationship: maybe they’re into that sort of thing 👀
On family: I think all families at some point smell each other’s farts and I’m sure it’s part of our primordial bond.
5d ago
Apr 1, 2025
This Cy Twombly playlist was particularly good, I also find peace in some Monet playlists. This does also apply to other forms of media, such as authors and influencers, films etc. I watched the Substance and found a lot of European 2000s house music through those lists. I just finished Cookie Mueller’s Walking Through Clear Water in A Pool Painted Black (apologies if it’s not the exact title of the book, I’m not motivated to look it up at the moment) but her lists are full of Nico and The Velvet Underground.
If your favorite artists dont already have playlists, make them one yourself!
Apr 8, 2025