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@TYLER i feel like i would be more likely to respond to asks if it was more like a comment instead of its own post in the feed AND it also had some features of the share post format, like links + pics, etc. i get sad when i go to answer a rec and it becomes something different from the original ask. and i can’t post an emoji with it. (lol) i’m throwing pasta at the wall seeing what sticks haha
18h ago
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I posted this as a comment a bit ago and seems to be a shared sentiment.. how does the general pifi population feel about this?? Might be a way to boost Ask engagement
1d ago
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- commenting on an ask rather than a whole rec replying (optional)
- more posts on the what’s hot / what’s rising — and more of a cycle through the posts throughout the day
- maybe a news feature? this is the only social media app it would be cool to see a ‘breaking news’ tidbit with just the highlights of what’s going on in the world
- (day two of asking for light coloured backgrounds with dark text 👉🏻👈🏻)
idk thanks for listening
Feb 10, 2025
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like even rn i wanna add this ASK to a list or bookmark it to come back to later but i cant.
i kinda wanna ‘save for later’ lots of stuffs.
hey ALSO tho, wish ppl could post pics in recs and not just for asks! @tyler
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!!nevermind my wis was already granted !!
wish i could see everything i’ve ever liked! 🌟
Apr 1, 2025
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please let us be free from the commodification of the data generated from our social, whimsical, and sincere, free expression
the sincerity of this app is because it’s different from those other apps :/ why do we need metrics on how we socialize? 😮💨😮💨
i’m curious as much as i am sad about the decision to make the star count visible. is that what its proper name is? or are we calling it likes? 👀
Apr 23, 2025
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i've been seeing piffies posting about, and I myself, have experienced The Yearn.
i've sat with my feelings about relationships through many seasons. i was with someone for 10 yrs, we got engaged, i broke it off. although he was an incredible person, he was not my soulmate. i've had a few relationships since then and have felt The Yearn.
after being dumped this weekend i have some thoughts to ask myself when looking at dating / The Yearn.
1 -- are you seeking connection or attention?
2 -- is your relationship an excuse for you to not work on other parts of yourself you know you need to take time to face?
3 -- how are your friendships? do you have people behind you that will see you through any season? keep those people around FOREVER. maybe marry them instead.... lmao 😳
4 -- have you dated yourself? was it full of joy and love?
5 -- can you (within reason - we can NOT exist and heal with out each other) meet your own needs and care for yourself?
6 -- how honest are you with yourself? you'll only ever be able to be that honest with other people, no matter the relationship.
7 -- are you just trying to follow a story arc that you *think* you *should* follow? see link: relationship escalator
my goals right now are to build up a family of people that will be with me forever! it's not a ton of people but it's enough! if i find a "soulmate" or "love of my life" along the way then like... nice 😃👍 but like that's not my GOAL. if you are young and reading this, i wish i knew in my 20s (am 31) what i am writing in this post. i g2g tho ~ ily, be well!
Mar 17, 2025
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this might be pessimistic, but i think i’ve finally learned this lesson…
if you can recognize icky behavior in other people and leave at that first sign, you will have significantly more stable, meaningful relationships of any kind.
do not rationalize their poor behavior and give them the benefit of the doubt. move on.
i wish i started doing this sooner.
Apr 21, 2025