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I get a weird feeling when someone says they’re “obsessed” with someone. I feel like it opens up the door to someone mistreating you because they know you’ll let it slide because you can’t live without them. Yes you can love someone with everything, but don’t lose who you are in the name of keeping your obsession happy. Speak up when things aren’t right. If they moving funny, man shit, if a joke goes too far, address it immediately and speak your truth. I believe words have power and obsessed is just something I‘m not willing to use all willy nilly.
May 24, 2025
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I can’t love any other way tbch
Jun 13, 2025
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I can be nice to myself, sure. I can’t be obsessed with myself, or at least, it’s very affirming to have someone who sees you just as deeply as you see yourself and turn out to be obsessed with the result of the whole of you, including the parts that you can’t perceive on your own.
May 29, 2024
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If you love someone or something, you need to act LOVING. If you aren’t consistently loving in relationships at best they’ll go stale, at worst there will be mistreatment. That includes the relationship with yourself.
Most importantly, if someone says they love you but treat you like garbage, they don’t. Be loving to yourself and leave.
Incorporating this frame of mind into your thoughts and actions is life changing.
Jul 17, 2024
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Don’t be that person. Mf got a banana and a Celsius, something is going down and they need to make a quick exit. You got mad vegetables anyway, let the cashier breathe a little before they struggle to remember how to ring up them green onions you copping.
Mar 19, 2025
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Nothing better than giving someone a little squeeze to show them you got them. It’s always great when someone can sense that you need it and add a little something to the hug. Don’t settle for a dap. Get in there.
Jun 3, 2025
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I have no context at all but I love it. Feels like I’m missing out but that’s alright it’s just good to hear somebody having a big ol belly laugh and enjoying this shit while we’re breathing.
Mar 17, 2025