about two or three months into my new job my coworker told me when i first started she didn’t think i liked her. i asked her why and she said well you seemed cool and confident and sure enough of yourself that you didn’t feel the need to go out of your way to impress or please people. to be honest this was kind of shocking at first because i wasn’t rly sure how they were perceiving me but to be fair i spent those first couple months being so hard on myself to let my personality come through in an authentic way and i guess it worked! i think taking the time to learn and understand yourself is truly a blessing and somewhat a curse but this meant a lot to me
