seems like a valuable conversational technique, especially with someone you don't know well or whose depths you are trying to mine: get them to ask themself the question and then to answer it This may also be a great stalled conversation technique! "Hey, what's a question you'd love for someone to ask you?" (Also I had fun replying to this non-ask Ask)
May 31, 2025

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I’ll be real mate I didn’t even mean to post that
May 31, 2025
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@SAML It’s all good — it may stir up some good replies!
May 31, 2025

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Better conversations guaranteed. Dig deep! It’s amazing how many ppl haven’t cultivated this fundamental skill.
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i try really hard to ask interesting questions — mainly because I hate small talk but also because a great question opens many doors and rabbit holes. a great question can catch people off guard, make them think and helps you learn so much about who they are and what they value. so when people say this to me, I won’t lie it feels great
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asking questions encourages connection between people (even if it’s short)!! like asking a barista what they like to drink, or asking the marine educator by the tide pools about the fish in there, or asking someone in a wait line what they do for work. obviously respect people’s time and space, but going out of my way to ask questions has lead to positive outcomes! Not only do you connect with people, but you might learn something or meet someone cool :)
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