drunkenness makes your decision making worse, but it doesn't spur something like that outta nowhere. Her judgement was impaired so she said the quiet part out loud. Still means that she's previously entertained that thought (i.e. 'yet') and still she acted on on it. you don't hang around somebody and their boyfriend for TWO YEARS and hit him with the "why haven't we fucked". Giving somebody the benefit of the doubt SHOULD be your default for small-stakes issues, not this. It's a fundamental disrespect (and gross of her!!) and if you chose to move forward staying friends with her you are asking for more bs like that. And we all know being drunk doesn't obsolve you from the consequences of your actions.
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use the scroll time to instead educate yourself on the billionaires making money off of your life and attention with these apps (i.e. how much money they make per minute/post, how algorithms are made like slot machines, subliminal targeted ads between posts, etc.) and you will find yourself naturally disgusted/enraged every time you open those apps instead of ashamed/frustrated. it's difficult to pull yourself out of a scroll, but the more you practice, the easier it can become. highly recommend the yt vid that hazelisonline made on this!! good luck 🍻
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