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I don’t think pop music has historically ever had a moment like her ā€œGirl, So Confusingā€ remix verse. It’s not a joke. It’s a triumph for literature. Everyone remembers where they were the first time they heard it. This was a serious revolution and took us out of her usual fever dreaminess of controlled poetic syntax (which I love) , to just unmasked, raw, chaotic feminine brutality and I don’t think we appreciate the prose switch-up enough. I also have said ā€œlet’s work it out on the remix?ā€ to many people I’ve fought with since the song dropped. Sometimes I even write a verse mimicking the song taking accountability of what I’ve done and I send it to who I’m in a conflict with, it actually helps! I’m obsessed with the new singles off her upcoming album Virgin and I’m already studying the cadence of epigrams like ā€˜MDMA in the back garden’,. I’m someone who struggles with severe summer depression, which is taboo in the world of seasonal sadists but taking my discman for a walk by the ocean as ā€œThe Pathā€ starts up on my (files purchased on ITunes!) burnt CD-R copy of ā€˜Solar Power’ is nature’s SSRI. Suck on that, Saint John’s Wort.
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*ā€œGirl, you walk like a bitchā€ when I was ten someone said that* *And itā€˜s just self defence until you’re building a weapon* actually had me in a stunlocked state for a good while
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Quite literally made me cry hearing MOTY
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it’s crazy to think she’s been around 15 years and this is one of the best songs she’s ever put out. It’s silly it’s outrageous the lyrics read like a tumblr post and she’s just out here trying to be that girl. It’s been stuck in my head since I heard it. following up a poetry book which I’m sure not a lot of people read with this unhinged masterpiece is the energy I want to see in the world.
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Everything is romantic feels so midwest hot girl and I love the vibe BUT Girl, so confusing hints at a collab with the LORDE while hitting with some personal lyrics like yes I do feel confused if people like me.
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people hate on this album too much but i guess they just don't get it! (see attached)
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