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even if it turns out you can do it by yourself, you should let your loved one support you. always be grateful and never take their helpfulness for granted. and also remember it’s ok to ask for and Be Helped. sounds obvious but it can be so hard for me sometimes.
5d ago
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Ask for help, even if you aren’t comfortable with it, just do it, you’d be surprised by how many people care for you.
Aug 14, 2024
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Not all the time of course you have to do stuff on your own sometimes, but we should ask for help more often.
Sep 18, 2024
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I planned on moving all by myself with a wagon, two dollies and a dream. But then I realized I can’t do it alone, sometimes it’s ok to ask for help, and believe that people around you and are always willing to lend a hand. All you need to do sometimes is ask, you are loved, I sure felt that way.
Feb 26, 2024
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my mind no longer operates in the paradigm that, in my youth, convinced me that some (most) people were too [insert socially favorable adjective here] to be friends with me. as a result i was timid and insecure. i knew a lot of people and i thought they would never be interested in knowing ~me~.
in the past 5 years i’ve made close and genuine friendships with people i had previously put on a pedestal simply because i thought they were better than me.
omg i read a poem this morning that goes something like: “devotion is not love, it creates distance. you can’t hold someone from a pedestal.”
Jun 8, 2025
fell in love with him @ the hollywood sanrio store. my boy is thicc & unbothered. he’s a reaaaal badmon. i don’t even know his lore like that and i dead don’t need to. the vibes are right with this lil sucker.
Jun 9, 2025
a lil reminder that control is an illusion. que sera sera!
edit: they’re so pretty i’m happy they immediately greeted me with their open petals
Jun 8, 2025