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i can make jokes its like a soap opera but it isn't - it's refreshing to go there and feel though how you are still alive, so is she, and that's all that matters.
I'd do it more often, post conflict ritual. I'd like to do it with her too, if it would be peaceful.
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My nana died recently and the funeral was probably the best day out of a terrible few weeks
I enjoyed the (sometimes farcical) performance of the Catholic ceremony, which was so disconnected from her life and personhood that you kind of had to laugh (i did this inwardly only). The priest got my granddad’s name wrong in the reading and half-sang along to the hymns as he performed the rites, the way you do when you’re listening to music while pottering about the house
I talked with family I hadn’t seen in years, or had seen and pretty much ignored because it felt easier at the time
I enjoyed noticing how there are maybe two different kinds of nose and mouth distributed among the cousins (myself included), except one girl I was convinced was a relative on the strength of her appearance turned out not to be, so maybe I was just looking for shared qualities where there aren’t any. I don’t think that is a bad thing though
Nov 4, 2024
I have family buried here from generations ago. My grandmother told me that before she got sick. I thought she was lying. One day I came across my uncommon name (with an even more uncommon spelling) on a sequence of graves, and it turns out that she was right. Even though our family has scattered in the generations since, this is one place I can return to feel close to my bloodline, to feel like I am in the right place.
It’s a beautiful cemetery & it’s nice to come home to where our experiment (unsuccessful as it sometimes feels) in being happy began.
Mar 19, 2025
Especially the one(s) in your home town! History lives through us. Love each other and fight for a better world!
Taken when I was in Paris.
Mar 15, 2025
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.."So i can die happy."
I rec that measurement. Creating your life in such way so you can say those words.
And she didn't live a life without challenges, I assume she meant being content with what she could control. But to the fullest.
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