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grindr?

I actually don’t recommend it, it’s evil dont ever spend ur money on it. All the cute people are far away

@leerunningcrane

Jun 18, 2024

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love hinge

i’ve met like a fair few people who have ended up becoming some of my best friends from hinge and a couple really cool people i‘m seeing has worked really well in every city i’ve lived in, i feel like it’s more queer than other apps? and it promotes actually reading people’s profiles more rather than just going off first photo but at its core apps are just a way to meet people because day to day has gotten so desocialised esp in london

@shegoestoanotherschool

Jul 20, 2024

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idk man it’s tough out there

I linked a rec I made over a year ago about deleting hinge and dating the old fashioned way. have I been on a single date since then? nope. do I stand by what I said? absolutely. I’m still convinced that the apps aren’t perfect, and while they might work for some people they’re kind of a necessary evil at best. without them, it’s hard to put yourself in contexts where meeting someone organically is possible. and even then, within those contexts the meeting has to be just that: organic. it takes time. it takes being in places/situations regularly where you think you’ll meet people who share your interests/values. it also takes a bit of effort to initiate those interactions, and also fate that someone might initiate something with you. the apps are a convenient, quick fix, instant gratification solution to the issue in that they will get you dates, but in exchange for quantity you may sacrifice on quality. things of quality have no fear of time, though. waiting to encounter someone who is a good fit and in a good phase of life to be what you need and vice versa is going to take time. and if you work a 9-5 like I do, you’re going to have to invest in putting yourself in situations to meet people in your free time.

@royallmonarch

Mar 11, 2025

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