I am frequently made aware of the actions of shitty people so when I'm with a buddy and we start talking about a shitty person and their shitty activities, I let out a good "what a guy." It's unconscious at this point tbh
girly, dude, man, bro, queen, bitch, are all gender-neutral terms now, so i have declared it. if i want to call myself (nonbinary) a girlypop then i will and you'll just have to deal w it