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knowing yourself well enough to establish boundaries is hard enough, but maintaining them shits??? may the lord have mercy on us all. That said - life will test you and having / knowing your boundaries in place is a huge plus.
pic unrelated - i planted flowers for the first time in a long time this weekend
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turns out boundaries can be kinda epic and awful at the same time
but I will recommend them because I can sleep at night knowing I stood up for myself and what I believe to be my truth , even though I wanted to Bend to someone elseās will so bad in order to not lose access to them.
therapy saved myyyy life
speaking as an ex absolutely no boundary bitch
Apr 19, 2025
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Reframing boundaries as a way of holding myself accountable. Not setting boundaries with someone who knowingly may disappoint me. Instead establishing one with myself with the intention to assert my agency. This can also prevent the opportunity for me to potentially shift blame onto someone who is not responsible for my own actions.
(Note: this is NOT applicable in every instance. boundaries are important and can be enforced however necessary! this is my own personal reflection)
Dec 30, 2023
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itās been strangely encouraging especially when i have to disappoint someone while setting boundaries.
Apr 29, 2024
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I still go on a couple times a day while Iām on the computer but that amounts to about 20x less than I would be otherwise. Brings down screen time more than youād think.
Mar 29, 2024
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I donāt want a Spotify wrapped, I donāt want an algorithm telling me what I like. Give me back the local dude at Blockbuster recommending our weekly movie night VHS, give me the cute girl at the record store saying āyou might like The Cureā.
Records, VHS, Cassette, Print Magazinesā¦.gimme dat shit
Dec 29, 2023
go outside, bring something to sit on, bring something to do thatās not your phone. thank yourself later.
Jun 9, 2025