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Recently, I decided that after almost three years of being single, I was no longer interested in being an itinerant sex crystal. It was a pretty fun time, but I was ready for something more. This meant it was time to get a boyfriend! I met my boyfriend because we were set up on a blind date. It's awesome to be in a relationship. I would recommend getting a boyfriend. My boyfriend and I just went to Paris!
1d ago
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I was celibi-cied for like 3 years after my situationship became an āomfg-you-are-a-serial-cheater-on-your-girlfriend-of-four-years!ā Hella afraid of love, intimacy and everything.
over the past few months, Iāve been casual dating for no other means than finding out what I like and donāt like. Iāve had good and bad sex, been given flowers on the first date and then ghosted, moved to the UK and had my first proper one night stand (every other one was too drunken to remember lol) and am currently on my first bae-cation with a man I am slowly falling in love with.
I promise you, dating for fun rather than for long-term involvement is so much more enriching than you think. As youāre floating around, you learn to decenter men and tolerate their mansplaining a lot less. You find out that no, you do not want to make a sex tape on the first date, and then youāll slowly trickle in the good stuff. Kind men who just listen to you, and are a little different than the other men youāve seen. Youāll learn to love being treated kindly, and cherish that above all else story-watching-liking-no game bs.
Itās sounds sooo irritating to say shit like phhh donāt look for it, itāll come for you!! But girl as annoying as it isā¦ that is the truth of the matter. I donāt know if this guy is my finish
line, but I did just orgasm like 8 times šš¾ I met on hinge, and lowkey ghosted him intially. give the guy in your dms a chance for real ā¦.
Wishing you and your future lover all the bestā¦.
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Nov 10, 2024
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itās marked a new era for me; now opening applications for 2 boyfriends.
Apr 29, 2024
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downloaded dating apps again after being asked for the millionth time why i'm not seeing anyone right now ... created my profile, swiped, and deleted everything within 24 hours .. again. why is everyone in such a rush to find that kind of connection? if i want a date night i'll call my friends. if i want mind-blowing physical satisfaction i'll put on a cate blanchett movie and do it myself. i just ordered a bundle of my favorite (terrible) (perfect) 1970s gothic romance novels to fufill my romantic dialogue needs... anywayssss have been feeling very content with my little life thank you to this piece (linked!!!) for validating all kinds of intimacy not just 'the one'
Feb 21, 2024
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This is one of my favorite artists. I found out about Onfim because I was trying to learn a little bit about Old Church Slavonic. Onfim was a little boy who did his great works on birch bark c. 13th century. Location: Novgorod. Onfim drew awesome self portraits where he is on a horse, killing his teacher with a pitchfork. Onfim did most of his great works at age 7. His dream job was to be a famous warrior. I wish I could draw like him. He was so uninhibited.Ā
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I am not sure why every cool 22 year old girl having a martini in Chinatown on a Friday night does not have this book in her purse. It's one of my favorite short story collections. Jen Georgeās fiction is whip-smart, funny, sexy, and gross. This book is like Weetzie Bat meets Rabelais. Yum.Ā
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For a really long time, I thought I did not have hobbies. I donāt enjoy crafting. I cannot play team sports because I am very uncoordinated. I am a terrible baker. I am terrible at any tabletop games that involve strategy. Recently, I realized I actually do have a hobby! My hobby is practicing my French. I have been trying to master the French language since I was about 11 years old. Thereās nothing I love more than having a few cocktails and finding a French person to practice with. Thatās my hobby!
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