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Due to some personal events in my life, friendships have always been a rocky mental battle for me. The idea of someone not just being neutral about my presence but instead celebrating it can be hard for me to actualize (Especially if I admire them quite a lot). But, when I think back to the people who I thought were “meh” about our friendship, I remember the pieces of art they’ve created for me, the thoughtful actions they’ve done for me, and the joy they’ve expressed for my accomplishments. People who have no affection or care for your being truly wouldn’t take the time to be around you, let alone going the extra mile.
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I love my life currently and the people in it. I have friends who genuinely care about me and will always support me and I know I can trust them. It’s a crazy feeling because I never had a lot of true friends throughout middle school and high school. Back then, one day i’d be friends then the next day there would be a whole drama fest. Cutting off, making amends, cutting off again, it all gets so tiring after a while. You can only do that for so long until you ware yourself out. I’m happy with my life and I do appreciate everyone who has ever been in my life because they have helped me get here and grow and learn, however you don’t need to stay friends with people forever. People change and that’s okay. You should never feel obligated to be someone’s friend just because of the past.
Apr 19, 2025
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Im at that stage in life where everyone is doing something completely different, there's times where I worry, there's times where im really proud & there's also times of just feeling nothing.
I have friends getting married, having children, single friends buying houses, traveling, there's friends who are having projects, there's also friends who are also struggling, friends going through heartbreaks & abusive relationships, friends losing their loved ones & all of them are just going through life.
I envy ( the good kind ) the ones who are doing well because I really want to see them happy & I worry for the ones that are not.
I just hope that when they are all near me they can feel how much I love them.
I just want my people happy & safe.
Apr 3, 2025
Cherish them. Thank them. Write them. Invite them to parts unknown. Share music, art, and food. Celebrate together; cry together. Share your hopes and fears; the mundane and extraordinary; the minutia and the barrenness of your life as it occurs. Savor every single moment you have together.
And don’t forget to tell them you love them — to the point you feel silly. The quality of your friendships dictate the quality of your life.
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I’m watching it be fleshed out in real time, seeing every kind of mishap or glitch. I love it, it’s changing with me.
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