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the truth

i just told the truth about a bad thing and i think i feel better about it. or not. who knows

@mattyi

Mar 11, 2025

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When you delude yourself a little too much

It’s fine!!! It’s the coping mechanism you needed at the time and now you know better. Just walk it back, sweetie

@linfo

Mar 12, 2025

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Everything Is (Not) My Fault

Every time something happens that's out of my control, I always internalize it and I start sulking, making it seem like I'm somehow at fault for the thing that happened (or didn't happen). Take today, for example. I was supposed to go out with a friend, but she suddenly cancelled without (what felt like) much of a reason.  I'm not upset because my friend cancelled our plans, she had every right to, and I won't hold that against her. I think the issue is that I'm upset because my friend cancelled our plans. I had something that I was looking forward to, and now that thing isn't happening anymore. That's the thing that making me upset. And for whatever reason, I'm making it seem like it's my fault that she cancelled, like it's my fault that I'm not going out. Like there was somehow, something that I did, that cause my friend to cancel. The truth is: It's nobody's fault. She had her reason to cancel, and I had no control over that. Sometimes, I find it difficult to accept that this is simply the case for a lot of things that don't go my way.  I find it interesting that I can state that this is what happened, but it's like I refuse to believe it. Like I'm lying to myself to try and "justify" what "actually" happened.  image via @/hel7l7 on tumblr

@4everinbliss

1d ago

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following random people on pi.fyi

if you are on this website we are now friends

@jimi

Jan 23, 2024

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pronouncing pi.fyi like sci-fi

i think im onto something here... lmk

@jimi

Jan 24, 2024

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gatekeeping

I have a really good rec to share but I don't want to tell anyone what it is

@jimi

Jan 25, 2024