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You both always agree that you should make plans when you run into each other, but then it never happens. Change that!
Last November, me and this person finally made plans after four years of this shit (thanks to him), and now we hangout all the time! He’s becoming a great friend. It’s real, it works, it’s nice!
Feb 7, 2024
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Some former mutuals have recently expressed their interest in getting to know me and it’s made me feel really good about myself! one was a match on a dating app (😽) and one was a spontaneous invite to a group hang that has now blossomed into several other hangs both independently and in a group setting. It feels nice to have irl people say “hey i’d like to get to know you better,” especially since i made it a goal to seek intimacy and connection more this summer. ♥️♥️♥️
Aug 22, 2024
I keep a standing calendar date with my long-distance friend. At first I made the typical excuses – "My schedule changes all the time", "I'm really busy", "I'll try to make it", "maybe when terms up"....thank god for this friend b/c she did not let me slack. Rarely do we cancel and it's actually fantastic. We have our own little rules for the gathering (no course prep, no admin, no emails) only writing/research/making.
FIND FRIENDS THAT KEEP YOU ACCOUNTABLE AND THAT SUPPORT YOU
2d ago
Obviously you gotta make an effort if you want something but I’ve been trying really hard recently to not stress about it to the point it just makes me have a bad time. Seeing people repeatedly over a long period of time will make things happen, it just will, but also only if it’s supposed to!
Picture of Josh O’Connor to convey how calm and relaxed about everything I am.
5d ago
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