I am down to go to places alone BUT I must admit I do tend to go at slower times because I do feel stressed when a place is mad busy. Start with the bar. It’s perfect for going solo and it’s not weird to bs around with the bartender or whoever sits by you. I do lunch often by myself but I eat early. I don’t feel bad taking up a two top when it’s not busy. It’s just something you get used to when you do it.
Feb 18, 2024

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