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wearing sunglasses on the train

plausible deniability always

@madeleinefisher

Nov 8, 2023

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sunglasses

iykyk

@TheLicks

Aug 7, 2024

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Wearing dark sunglasses indoors

It adds mystique. We played a show at Market Hotel recently and I wore a pair during the performance and just putting them on helped me get into the zone. Added bonus: no one knows who you’re looking at.

@allyson-camitta

Mar 10, 2023

Top Recs from @daphne

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REALIZING THIS IS MORE ABOUT WHO YOU ARE THAN WHAT YOU KNOW/HAVE/DO

It occurs to me... that the posts I most connect with are ones where people unfurl their weirdo habits, values, inner lives (i love the "crush" genre of pi posts), ways of living, likes, dislikes, life philosophical points of view etc. I do treasure proper recs with an object, i.e. a new record or book or 8 hour youtube video, but I find myself really moved when someone shares how they live a good life. appreciating!!

@daphne

2d ago

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saying hi to acquaintances in public

I've been on a real journey lately. You see the person across the room and you know them... and you know they know you... but you know that they aren't going to come over and say hi... do it. Take the plunge. However the approach needs to happen, make contact. Don't wait until you see them at the next networking event and say "hey were you at the taco place the other day?" It's surprisingly empowering and frankly kind of an impressive social maneuver. The reward is giddy and powerful and immediate. It makes me feel like I've broken out of the matrix.

@daphne

Jun 10, 2025

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TELLING THEM YOU CARE

Any degree, any intensity, the world needs to know. If the care is there, u gotta share.

@daphne

Jun 10, 2025