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moving to chicago did not give me transplant syndrome like i fear new york would’ve, i love my city! i moved here when i was 18 and went to mcgees every weekend and now i am 21 and i go to delilah’s instead! im growing up
May 4, 2024
i love being a cool person in this small town
Jan 26, 2024
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big transition from the west coast but this is all my dreams coming true i’m scared but the world is wide and i deserve to have my footprints all over it and this is as good of a place as any to start
Jun 8, 2025

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(Not literally.) I’m of the belief that platonic relationships are just as important as romantic ones. Build a community of folks who meet you where you are and with whom you feel safe and vice versa! In a perfect world they see all versions of you from rock bottom to ascending, not unlike the intimacy usually reserved for a lover. Fuck that heteronormative bullshit. Do that with your friends. They will give you grace and hold you accountable for foolishness. If you don’t have people like this, go out and make them. This late night shower thought brought to you by a conversation with a cishet male Uber driver who really needs to love himself more.
Mar 4, 2024
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Work on yourself. Figure out your own likes and dislikes. Date yourself with such vigor, as if you were dating a new lover. That coupled with time passing ought to work wonders.
Mar 15, 2024
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Join the A24 fan club (appropriately named AAA24) because they occasionally hook you up with free tickets to screenings, invitations to special events, will be the first to greet you happy birthday and send a gift of your choice, and you get quarterly zines! The welcome kit comes with a members pin and the latest zine. (No I do not work for them, I just think it’s one of the coolest fan clubs I’ve ever joined)
Apr 4, 2024