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Clarifies feelings and desires. Also reduces crush anxiety/shame? Also lets you imagine feeling hot and cool and smooth for real. I find it scary and embarrassing but crushes are scary and embarrassing. Crush more, it might go well or bad but damnit sometimes it's so satisfying to feeeeelll
Currently crushing if that's not clear oyyyyy
Jun 20, 2024
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retracting my last anti rec on crushes this is kind of fun
4d ago
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most energizing thing ever but also dangerous how delusional it makes you
Feb 11, 2024
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It's a lack of information, and I find them cathartic, it's a fun surprise when you realise you can continue to have crushes, and also it teaches you about your preferences, and maybe even how they've changed.
If lucky, it can also become a great friendship, or a light love for days, months, years...
Nov 16, 2024
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It occurs to me... that the posts I most connect with are ones where people unfurl their weirdo habits, values, inner lives (i love the "crush" genre of pi posts), ways of living, likes, dislikes, life philosophical points of view etc. I do treasure proper recs with an object, i.e. a new record or book or 8 hour youtube video, but I find myself really moved when someone shares how they live a good life. appreciating!!
2d ago
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I've been on a real journey lately. You see the person across the room and you know them... and you know they know you... but you know that they aren't going to come over and say hi... do it. Take the plunge. However the approach needs to happen, make contact. Don't wait until you see them at the next networking event and say "hey were you at the taco place the other day?" It's surprisingly empowering and frankly kind of an impressive social maneuver. The reward is giddy and powerful and immediate. It makes me feel like I've broken out of the matrix.
Jun 10, 2025
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Any degree, any intensity, the world needs to know. If the care is there, u gotta share.
Jun 10, 2025