leaves you susceptible to dating someone for too long because they play a role rather than it being about who they are. if you go in open to every situation, it will play out as its supposed to naturally (sometimes with a little nudge)
Aug 4, 2024
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use it as an opportunity to meet new people, make friends, basically behave naturally and don’t create some type of fake persona to impress another person
if there is a spark than go for it, but it is not that serious, just become friends with them lol
Jan 24, 2024
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We are both in it and chilling, but too busy to commit (long distance things). Need a love that will change my mind about love!
I will recommend easing up about it, so you meet tons of people and also learn what you like/don't like for dates.
Mar 11, 2025
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i know that doesn’t really make sense, so let me explain!
if you love books, find a bookstore, wander around, and don’t be afraid to approach someone first—chances are the person you approached and yourself already have something in common.
if you want to have a romantic cafe encounter, go to a cafe and just start chatting to strangers! you like the barista? flirt a little and slide your number to him written on a napkin. (always have a pen on you—asking people to put their number in your phone is an awkward exchange. you want the mystery of sliding your number over, then disappearing with a final wink. and don’t wait on someone to text you back, it might not happen so flirt around!!)
you want a partner who might be a bit of an aristocrat? hang out in the places they may congregate—golf courses, beach clubs, that kind of thing—and doll up. just start chatting! honestly, we live in a world where people don’t approach strangers anymore, so you need to be the change you want to see.
or you even like musicians? go hang out in music lounges!!!
don’t go to places that make you feel very uncomfortable or hold the characteristics of a partner you don’t want. if you hate clubbing, don’t go to a club and hope to find your future partner—because that might already be a glimpse into the future of your relationship.
anyways, i hope that makes sense. but honestly, if you feel confident in yourself, it makes approaching strangers so much easier. (who knows, you might even be the one approached.) so serve yourself first. get yourself in a good mental place before getting into the dating scene.
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yall i made these jeans a week ago and im fucking obsessed with how i look in them like this feeling is unattainable in pants you buy imo
i came back to california for the holidays and went for a haircut then i went to the bathroom and seen myself & thought damn i look fucking good. it’s almost like i feel like i‘m in balenciaga but even more confident because i did it, not balenciaga. and these jeans if you lay them flat are very different from balenciagas as is, much more outseam shape and they’re probably baggier relative to waist size, balenciaga is big on everyone which is why they look like that tbh
anyway learn to make stuff you appreciate it more and it’s really for You and it is Yours
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