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eye contact and genuine inquiry is a great start. Turns out everyone has a soul and is basically you in a different form, so they’re actually quite fascinating and lovable. Give it a try.
Nov 12, 2024
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Wanting to genuinely get to know someone without an agenda should be the new currency.
Thinking someone is interesting and wanting to know a bit of their story is what makes this experience human.
These types of exchanges are boosting the frequencyyyy.
Listening without biased judgement is the most compelling you can be.
I have learned I can't figure out who I am without other people.
May 30, 2025
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dont just start talking for the sake of talking, instead find something you actually think is interesting about that person, give them the compliment/question and go from there.
be present, actually listen to what they’re saying instead of just being in your head thinking about what you’re gonna say next. you’ll be surprised how much people love to talk about themselves!
Jun 11, 2025
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this might not all apply to you, but sometimes if I overthink social interactions in general, I end up missing out on what could have been a really good conversation. I usually like to ask myself what I’m genuinely curious about/want to know about a specific person and let my questions lead into a more fruitful discussion. worst case scenario is that don’t take the bait and then the conversation ends, but most of the time I find people like talking about themselves, which can lead to something y’all have in common.
I also don’t put pressure on myself to “make a friend” after one interaction. some people require crumbs of interactions before they start to let you in!
Mar 27, 2024
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10/10 would recommend. just comes so damn naturally. magnetizes the people to you who will actually appreciate you for who you are, instead of who you pretend to be. repels the people who'd force you to fake it. It's bullet proof, imo.
Nov 12, 2024
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I love temperate weather. i struggle with style-less beach flop sorts. Nice is Parisian chic meets beach vibes. of course the French did it best. yes forever.
Nov 12, 2024
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it's actually so cringe and not charming at all to try. The people who don't get it won't get it anyway, and you'll just erode your own minimal sense of self respect by even trying.
Let them crucify you. Martyrs are always remembered.
Feb 12, 2025