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Actually getting to know someone

eye contact and genuine inquiry is a great start. Turns out everyone has a soul and is basically you in a different form, so they’re actually quite fascinating and lovable. Give it a try.

@annaleighla

Nov 12, 2024

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Follow genuine CURIOSITY

this might not all apply to you, but sometimes if I overthink social interactions in general, I end up missing out on what could have been a really good conversation. I usually like to ask myself what I’m genuinely curious about/want to know about a specific person and let my questions lead into a more fruitful discussion. worst case scenario is that don’t take the bait and then the conversation ends, but most of the time I find people like talking about themselves, which can lead to something y’all have in common. I also don’t put pressure on myself to “make a friend” after one interaction. some people require crumbs of interactions before they start to let you in!

@lsav

Mar 27, 2024

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BE GENUINELY CURIOUS + ASK QUESTIONS

dont just start talking for the sake of talking, instead find something you actually think is interesting about that person, give them the compliment/question and go from there. be present, actually listen to what they’re saying instead of just being in your head thinking about what you’re gonna say next. you’ll be surprised how much people love to talk about themselves!

@jeannedielman

Jun 11, 2025

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LITTLE BEAR 2001

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May 8, 2025

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GIVE THE FOUR YEAR OLD THE CAMERA

Seeing yourself through innocence’s eyes hits different

@humblr

Jun 4, 2025

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PAYING ATTENTION TO WHAT FEELS GOOD ON SOCIAL PLATFORMS V WHAT DOES NOT P.2

-not feeling obligated to follow ppl from my past (this often changes how I would post) -when the audience does not feel like surveillance -not thinking about the audience (there really isn’t one) -embracing typos -feels like pen pals -feels like I’m just playing on computer -feels like a diary

@humblr

May 5, 2025