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Hate it when people don't plan. Like we get there spontaneously and that's the day that's closed or something. Good hangouts require a certain amount of planning for it to be good. If a person says "we'll see" regarding something we are supposed to do that day, I just know is not getting done.

@mariamaria

Dec 11, 2024

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