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I like planning. I enjoy arranging activities to do with my friends and working out details. But it's only fun when the friend also plans sometimes. It has to be a little give and take. I don't have energy to be pouring on people who take it personally when I ask them to choose an activity.
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I'm not always good at this. And sometimes it feels so administrative. But, getting a plan on the calendar makes sure that I can prioritize everyone in my life in the way I want, and that feels good. No more planning the weekend on Friday afternoon.
Jan 26, 2024
Hate it when people don't plan. Like we get there spontaneously and that's the day that's closed or something. Good hangouts require a certain amount of planning for it to be good. If a person says "we'll see" regarding something we are supposed to do that day, I just know is not getting done.
Dec 11, 2024
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i stopped initiating and asking first to hang, but when somebody reaches out i always end up planning the hang. its always me who asks when where and who, how will we get there, overall just planning ahead. i know if i dont plan it, it will never ever happen
Jun 29, 2024
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It's so lawless. You’ll see the weirdest things and no one will care. People are so unabashedly human here. Dead expressions, exhaustion, boredom. You’ll get a coffee, someone else will get a bloody mary, the time is irrelevant. Your priorities will be tested, everything costs at least three times as much as it should, it won’t matter. I love liminal spaces.
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