š
This is kinda a long story but I really want to tell it because Iām having so many mixed emotions and thoughts over it.
I just had a work party and I really didnāt want to go because the people I work with are cool but like I donāt want to see all of them on my day off (no offense), but anywho, there was this dishwasher there who Ive met before but never really talk to because we donāt work the same days and he looked so over the party and I was leaving and knew we live near each other (we go to the same college) so I offered him a ride home to which he gladly accepted. I also know heās super introverted and not chatty at all (unlike me the chatty extrovert) so I didnāt force him to talk to me or anything but by the end of the ride I ended up sitting outside his dorm for so long letting him just talk to me and he started tearing up over how he recently just went through all this friend drama and heās feeling so lost and alone and how he went from having all these awesome friends to them kinda screwing him over behind his back. I wish there was more I could have done for him in the moment but I just listened and gave him my number if he ever wanted to talk, but I hope he knows that when I said everything is going to work out and be alright I meant it. heās such a sweet kid and seeing him upset made me so sadš anyways if youve been through this or are going through this, youāre not alone and youāre not a bad person, you just need to find your people and itās okay to take your time and find the ones who make you feel good about yourself and loved and sooo wanted because theyāre out there! Trust me!
Feb 11, 2025
Related Recs
š
As someone who is maybe 2ish connections removed from the situation Im assuming you may be referring toā¦ I am so deeply sorry š hope you know that there are many strangers out there who are rooting for you and think you deserve to be happy and treated well, despite being strangers ā¦
As someone who has been through a lot of heartbreak, the advice already given in previous comments is really great . I think in my experience, having 1 or 2 friends that you know really love you and get you, that you can spend time with even if you are really sad and not contributing much, was helpful. If you feel the need to talk about your feelings try to keep it to those people, or a journal. Once you start to feel a little better going out with more people and being more social can really help remind you of what is valuable about YOU.. what YOU enjoy and bring to the world..
Above all it helped me to remind myself that life is going to go on. You will move on, no matter how long it might take. It might feel like the worst thing in the world but i promise you will get through it. Itās just a matter of time :) be kind to yourself while time passes. I cant emphasize enough how deeply I have felt so heartbroken I thought I couldnt go on. Multiple times. Yet here I am.. and you will be okay too ā¤ļø
Mar 3, 2024
š£
goodmorning everyone!!
this is a crush update? kinda?
things are going good! friendship is strong and my feelings are still heavy, but i can talk about them for hours and they would all say the same. also, enjoying my time being friends but thatās for another moment heheheh
so this is not so much as an update rather than a question to myself. after a friend made a joke on a big group chat in which we both are (the joke is about the rumor that we kissed once) i was left slightly confused. i unaccustomed myself to be have the right to be angry. the joke left me feeling slightly off, but i wouldnāt consider myself angry. at the same time, what gives me the right to be angry? it was just a joke. but if i felt like the joke might have some impact on our friendship (with crush), should i be angry? it definitely didnāt feel okay. but if the intentions were not harmful? im just so lost and i feel like i left my right to feel anything to make other people feel better. is that a normal feeling?
because, at the same time, i donāt want other people to feel bad. i have so much love to give and i just want to spread it to everyone, even if they hurt me in the past. is that bad? i donāt like the idea of acting angry towards someone knowing that they might feel bad. does that dehumanize my feelings? i want everyone to feel okay, and i feel like thereās no need to act angry towards someone, who that might make them feel bad.
filling really lost right now. if youāre going to comment on any post, please help me!! šš»
5d ago
I have had a terrible week. My laptop broke down again. Found out fixing it earlier lost me 400 euros. Film camera broke. New film didnt develop (with some important ass photos on it). My best friend is leaving the country and I got let go from a job last week. All the while Iām in a country that I dont particularly know if I am going to stay for the next while. Safe to say it aint working out cousin. Plus rent is due next tomorrow.
I was in a pit today, and maybe yesterday tooā¦.maybe its the booze (I hope not) or maybe its the good company I had today but I feel better about my situation. I wanna connect, I want to lov thos around me I need to stop lying to myself saying those I surround myself with donāt care for me. This is not just for me, but for you. If you think youāre alone, lonely, spat out and despised by the world, that probably aint the truth. People out there, who donāt have the same second name as you do probably aloso love you. It only takes 2-7 beers with friends to realise that.
Not great but hey, its the best we can do atm.
Its all love,
It always has been.
:*
May 1, 2025
Top Recs from @genevieve
Idk about you but this fish has been making me cry all day. sheās so small and she traveled so far to see the sun. Iām so proud of herš
Feb 17, 2025
š„Æ
They were ass š
Jan 16, 2025
š”
I snatched a pair of my moms Dansko clogs out of her closet over winter break and theyāre the best thing ever. I can slip them on to go to work, class, on a walkā¦ I LOVE THEM. Itās also so snowy and slushy here and I canāt deal with wet socks, but thankfully my clogs are both platform and waterproof š seriously the best things ever. Iām wearing them with sweatpants in class right now actually. Bring āem back!!
Jan 16, 2025