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Rec'd on 💌 what to do with old love letters?

idk i think keep them until you're interested in someone else and then reconsider… i’d def be upset if my partner kept something like that from a past relationship especially if they were never opened and you just have them for comfort because it would seem like you’re not over that relationship but that’s just me. i also think if you’re not fully over them it would be helpful to get over them if you didn’t have those sitting in your room or wherever but everyone is different!

@pinckle

Mar 26, 2025

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i feel like there’s such an all or nothing culture around friendship these days — what it really comes down to is: do you feel comfortable continuing to have this person in your life? is it always going to be nagging at the back of your mind that they might not respect u/ur relationship? you don’t have to make a decision right now! but going forward it’s something to keep in mind — if I were you I might not trust this person with vulnerable information, I would be less emotionally invested in them, and I would be extra skeptical of their words/actions. but maybe they’re still fun to hang out with sometimes; I don’t think that’s a crime. although I would def keep them away from boyfriend. does it mean you never have to speak to them again? no — unless you find yourself worrying about it and resenting them! in that case you’re totally justified to move on with your life without them in it. ultimately I think boyfriend should say to (sober) friend hey that was super uncool and don’t do that again. it shouldn’t be your responsibility to deal with this. idk tho that’s just my onion 💯

@crickett

Jun 7, 2025

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Honestly, it all depends on how the breakup went. With my ex, we didn’t really get along at first after splitting, but after some space, we ended up on good terms. We both realized we had our own issues to own up to. I think it’s just a mature way to look at it. You liked something in that person once, so even if things didn’t work out, there’s no harm in staying cool with each other.