omg okay.
restaurants: bar sen/ma der (laotian) , szechuan story, sheesh mahal (pakistani) , pho cuong or pho lien hoa (Vietnamese) , sedalias (seafood), el sabor de la baja (best mexican food coming from someone from san diego), or nonesuch ($$$)
bars: lunar lounge/barkeep (cocktails and cocktail supplies at barkeep), goodtimes (divey, most of the bartenders are good friends of mine and so kind, beer shot combo deal, stoner food), 51st street speakeasy (live music, multiple bars in one building, pool and other games), the flea (VERY divey and cheap), good for a few (cocktails, incredible, charlie the owner is amazing), the study (wine bar, get the david lynch flight), prarie artisan ales (brewery specializing in sours, very affordable)
to do: museum of osteology, first americans museum, the zoo, factory obscura, concerts at tower theater (criterion has bigger shows but the sound isnt as good), the myriad gardens, OKC bombing memorial, scissortail park
im sure ill think of more but let me know if you have any questions! i moved here from san diego three years ago and i love it