Rec | ABSOLUTELY THE FUCK NOT

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Rec'd on 😃 do you think my ex should be friends with my best friend?

No way, he’s totally trying to manipulate you emotionally. Unless he was already hanging out with said BFF before you broke up this is a toxic ass sitch and if they’re a real one they’ll hear you and not hang with him. Best case scenario is they hang and you’re REALLY uncomfortable when you talk with them, WORST case scenario I dare not say out loud. Yeah this is not good or reasonable, I’d crash out

@rainbelow

Apr 8, 2025

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@ren__aa

I thought so too, he tried calling me again this morning but I didn't answer, he then texted me saying " you didn't answer last night , just wanted to say I love you and don't get angry" , I didn't reply.

Apr 9, 2025

@rainbelow

@REN__AA my friend, if its seriously over he shouldn’t be able to text you at all, it might be time to block him

Apr 9, 2025

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@Jai

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