Please warn your groomsmen about any expenses they will have to cover (suit rentals mainly) way ahead of time. Please do not hit them with expenses they weren’t expecting right when they need to pay for them. If possible, find a way that they don’t have to cover such expenses! They will thank you for this. You really don’t need to break the bank for suits, if you go to the right place, a good looking suit is very inexpensive. Not that I think Tyler would say this (idk) but I feel like people would say “what if people can tell the suits are cheap?” 1. They can’t 2. If they can, they’re nerds and can get over it. That is my unmarried advice, thank you.
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Just really consider who you invite because god damn people have no respect (this is not necessarily for @TYLER and is more of just a general bit of advice for anyone getting married)
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You and Jennie seem amazing so I'm not going to try for vague relationship advice, I hope your friends and family have that covered.
But for the wedding (and honestly big parties in general), plan the shit out of it until the night before, and then don't worry about it anymore. Starting then just enjoy the feelings. You're getting married! To a really cool person! It should be fun! Let the food people handle food and the music people handle the music and trust the groomsmen and bridesmaids to handle the little possible mishaps. Your job is to take in the the people you've gathered and celebrate this new fun part of your life.
(so that's my unsolicited marriage advice from an unmarried young person, bc Matt said I could)
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