a good amount of my day to day lexicon is just me quoting my dad. every time someone says they love me? "what's not to love." instead of saying something is good, you just say "strong." i even refer to myself in the third person the way he does when asking for things, such as saying "big glass of water for belly?" (his nickname for me), even when i am just getting my own water. i did also inherit his poor communication skills and lack of vulnerability, but sometimes i feel like thats okay since i love him so much despite these things
Jun 4, 2025
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i realized that everytime i make a joke that doesn’t land i make the exact same face my dad does. like without even thinking about it, i have SO many of the same mannerisms and references and phrases my dad has. i’m truly his mini me we are almost the same person.
Jun 4, 2025
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He is somewhat unlike everyone else in my family in this way. I admire this very much about him.
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The older I get the more comments I get saying I look so much like my dad. I used to hate it but now whenever I see him, I find comfort that I reflect not only his physical but also i have learned and live some of the best traits if his.
Jun 12, 2025
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i know its mind blowing. but we need to accept the complexities of life. you can not think in a binary yes or no black and white fashion. you will never find perfection, things can be super awesome and also suck a bit. someone can make you insanely happy and also sad. you can hurt someone and they can hurt you too. when you learn to sit in the discomfort of the inbetween you can actually look at the issues that surround you and all their layers and nuances and perhaps.. even begin to work through them. sometimes you're over something yet it stings u every day. many contradictory things can be true at once!!!
Jun 10, 2025
lily and i got horribly lost and in a series of unfortunate events, missed our train to our roommates grad party where there’s supposed to be rlly delicious food. after 25 minutes of sitting in silence waiting for the next one she goes “this is hbo girls” and i immediately felt better about our misfortunes. highly recommend trying this for yourself and telling me if it works
May 31, 2025
gather all the cash u have and go to chinatown and literally eat until u cant anymore. this rice roll was like $2 and it was the most perfectly textured bite ever (sun hing lung bc i dont gatekeep) bring a friend or an audiobook and try sooooooo much food
May 23, 2025