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i know its mind blowing. but we need to accept the complexities of life. you can not think in a binary yes or no black and white fashion. you will never find perfection, things can be super awesome and also suck a bit. someone can make you insanely happy and also sad. you can hurt someone and they can hurt you too. when you learn to sit in the discomfort of the inbetween you can actually look at the issues that surround you and all their layers and nuances and perhaps.. even begin to work through them. sometimes you're over something yet it stings u every day. many contradictory things can be true at once!!!
Jun 10, 2025
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Very interesting to see how people lean so far to one side or the other, there's eventually a breaking point
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With Life there problems where two things can be true. you lose someone, you can be angry and sad, if youāre dealing with a conflict with someone, you can want to forgive them, but also be mad at them. Life doesnāt have to be so black-and-white like these individualistic capitalistic ideals. two things can coexist two emotions,two facts in life and that is OK.
Dec 30, 2024
little has changed me as much as accepting the things i cannot change and acknowledging that one truth doesn't dictate another. i can have a hard day AND my friends still love me. iāve always had a tendency to spiral after going through something difficult or challenging and the idea of two things being true at once has kept me sane. itās such a simple concept but itās truly impacted me.
Jan 23, 2025
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not in a hater-esque āthis shit is wackā way but in an radical-imagination-for-a-better-world way, i think thereās too much we simply canāt accept and if the stuff we *can* accept can be better, why not try? i think thereās a sweet spot between being content and being complacent and itās important to strive for something more while also recognizing that getting there takes time and we have to find solace on the journey while still putting foot in front of foot
Mar 20, 2024
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a good amount of my day to day lexicon is just me quoting my dad. every time someone says they love me? "what's not to love." instead of saying something is good, you just say "strong." i even refer to myself in the third person the way he does when asking for things, such as saying "big glass of water for belly?" (his nickname for me), even when i am just getting my own water. i did also inherit his poor communication skills and lack of vulnerability, but sometimes i feel like thats okay since i love him so much despite these things
Jun 4, 2025
lily and i got horribly lost and in a series of unfortunate events, missed our train to our roommates grad party where thereās supposed to be rlly delicious food. after 25 minutes of sitting in silence waiting for the next one she goes āthis is hbo girlsā and i immediately felt better about our misfortunes. highly recommend trying this for yourself and telling me if it works
May 31, 2025
gather all the cash u have and go to chinatown and literally eat until u cant anymore. this rice roll was like $2 and it was the most perfectly textured bite ever (sun hing lung bc i dont gatekeep) bring a friend or an audiobook and try sooooooo much food
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