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being single

should i drop everything and move to nyc? should i go to the club tonight with friends and kiss a stranger? should i pretend like everyone is in love with me?

@hchesh

Jan 27, 2025

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CHOOSE ENVIRONMENTS THAT ATTRACT THE TYPE OF PERSON YOU WANT TO END UP WITH

i know that doesn’t really make sense, so let me explain! if you love books, find a bookstore, wander around, and don’t be afraid to approach someone first—chances are the person you approached and yourself already have something in common. if you want to have a romantic cafe encounter, go to a cafe and just start chatting to strangers! you like the barista? flirt a little and slide your number to him written on a napkin. (always have a pen on you—asking people to put their number in your phone is an awkward exchange. you want the mystery of sliding your number over, then disappearing with a final wink. and don’t wait on someone to text you back, it might not happen so flirt around!!) you want a partner who might be a bit of an aristocrat? hang out in the places they may congregate—golf courses, beach clubs, that kind of thing—and doll up. just start chatting! honestly, we live in a world where people don’t approach strangers anymore, so you need to be the change you want to see. or you even like musicians? go hang out in music lounges!!! don’t go to places that make you feel very uncomfortable or hold the characteristics of a partner you don’t want. if you hate clubbing, don’t go to a club and hope to find your future partner—because that might already be a glimpse into the future of your relationship. anyways, i hope that makes sense. but honestly, if you feel confident in yourself, it makes approaching strangers so much easier. (who knows, you might even be the one approached.) so serve yourself first. get yourself in a good mental place before getting into the dating scene.

@jilly

1d ago

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befriending/sleeping with people u meet on the subway

I use no dating app as I am too beautiful and it’s all too confusing for a nubile young girl like me… however my sometimes-habit of yapping with random old/interesting/cute persons I encounter on my hour+ long commutes home has recently bore the fruit of some really incredible and unexpected first dates. I recommend chatting with the attractive stranger - maybe give social media only if you are a bit afraid but if anything it is a great exercise in Remembering How To Talk In a Human Way Like a Normal Person 💯

@peenit

Oct 7, 2024

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Harmony korine in good will hunting

His only line is “hey man, you wanna see my ass?”

@destiny

Feb 29, 2024

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Vaping

It is fun! Although the delusion that it is better than cigarettes has dissipated - you can still do it indoors without people vocally Bitching

@destiny

Jan 15, 2024

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Oppenheimer

Actually, can’t imagine sitting through in the theatre and still being interested till the end so I’m happy I watched it at home with Trader Joe’s cinnamon rolls( the best) in bed, kratom, and this Amazon typeo. Best movie I’ve ever seen in my life I cried you can’t tell me otherwise

@destiny

Jan 9, 2024