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Dating Models

Just do it. If you’re in New York there’s so many models I don’t understand why you wouldn’t find a nice one and just settle down. Also people stare at you and say things like “beautiful couple” all the time, it is cool!

@destiny

Jan 11, 2022

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CHOOSE ENVIRONMENTS THAT ATTRACT THE TYPE OF PERSON YOU WANT TO END UP WITH

i know that doesn’t really make sense, so let me explain! if you love books, find a bookstore, wander around, and don’t be afraid to approach someone first—chances are the person you approached and yourself already have something in common. if you want to have a romantic cafe encounter, go to a cafe and just start chatting to strangers! you like the barista? flirt a little and slide your number to him written on a napkin. (always have a pen on you—asking people to put their number in your phone is an awkward exchange. you want the mystery of sliding your number over, then disappearing with a final wink. and don’t wait on someone to text you back, it might not happen so flirt around!!) you want a partner who might be a bit of an aristocrat? hang out in the places they may congregate—golf courses, beach clubs, that kind of thing—and doll up. just start chatting! honestly, we live in a world where people don’t approach strangers anymore, so you need to be the change you want to see. or you even like musicians? go hang out in music lounges!!! don’t go to places that make you feel very uncomfortable or hold the characteristics of a partner you don’t want. if you hate clubbing, don’t go to a club and hope to find your future partner—because that might already be a glimpse into the future of your relationship. anyways, i hope that makes sense. but honestly, if you feel confident in yourself, it makes approaching strangers so much easier. (who knows, you might even be the one approached.) so serve yourself first. get yourself in a good mental place before getting into the dating scene.

@jilly

1d ago

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relations!!!

downloaded dating apps again after being asked for the millionth time why i'm not seeing anyone right now ... created my profile, swiped, and deleted everything within 24 hours .. again. why is everyone in such a rush to find that kind of connection? if i want a date night i'll call my friends. if i want mind-blowing physical satisfaction i'll put on a cate blanchett movie and do it myself. i just ordered a bundle of my favorite (terrible) (perfect) 1970s gothic romance novels to fufill my romantic dialogue needs... anywayssss have been feeling very content with my little life thank you to this piece (linked!!!) for validating all kinds of intimacy not just 'the one'

@bbyblue13

Feb 21, 2024

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Having a lil crush scenerio

anywhere and everywhere, no matter how unrealistic, simply for funsies and giggles, literally what motivates me to leave my house

@hchesh

Jan 27, 2025

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wunderhorse

i had never heard of these british men but my friend invited me to their concert, so i listened today and i like it. i like it a lot.

@hchesh

Jan 27, 2025